My mother has been with me a year. Her ability to walk has been gone for almost two years. She does not like to exercise and has been sleeping a lot. Recently she had a significant decline in coordination and inability to comprehend.she now needs help eating therefore her food intake has declined.She is 90 yrs old and has acquired parkinsons among many other ailments. if she wakes up on her own she starts out better than if i wake her. this has made our medication times vary, but remain in sequence. Am i being neglectful letting her be??
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I used to know someone with Parkinson's, and in the end she died of a severe infection because her urine was very dark. Just like you described, my friend lost her ability to walk as well. She was in a nursing home and used a geriatric chair. Nurses had to use a special patient transfer sling to transfer her between her bed and chair. The transfer was a long one because she was pretty heavy at the time, so this took them much longer to transfer her.
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HotardTe Your post is a beautiful tribute to Your Dad, and defines Who You are. The reason Your Dad Lived to such a wonderful age is because He knew You Loved Him so much.
My dad just passed away at at 97. I wish he would have slept more too,but he felt he would never wake up , so he fought sleep . He was my best friend, and at times we would argue, but we never stopped loving each other...i look back and second guess decisions i made, but in the end God quietly took him ...i just want to hug all the elderly people i see now, and their family members that love them so.
Let her sleep and keep in close contact with her doctor. They need at the end youe patience, feeling needed and loved, and knowing they are safe. THey are both stubborn and sweet toddlers with a head full of memories to share. You know your mother best and how blessed she is to have you.