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Christi903 Asked April 2016

How can I get POA of my father's medical care and refuses to go to the hospital?

His health is severely declining and he won't go to the hospital. He probably won't give me POA, but I'm out of ideas

freqflyer Apr 2016
Christi903, one thing to try is to tell Dad that if he doesn't have an annual checkup with a doctor that he will lose all future medical care..... I know it is a fib, but sometimes we need to do what is called "therapeutic fibs" to get our elders to do what is in their best interest.

Eyerishlass Apr 2016
Even with you as POA he can still refuse to go to the hospital. As Angel said, it's his right to refuse care.

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Angelkw Apr 2016
If he is competent you cannot get control. If he is competent and he is refusing care, that is his right.

Often in this situation you would need to wait for a major event to happen, something catastrophic like a fall, or a delusional breakdown, to call an ambulance and have him taken to the hospital.

Angel

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