I have a brother that removed my mother from her home and is living with him.He went to bank and closed two of mom's accounts and opened a new one. I inquired at the bank and they said he brought my mother with him when this was done. She is 92. My mother was a victim of elderly fraud/theft that happened at this bank between her and another man 4 years ago. The bank cashed a $40K check and money received in CASH. They walked out of the bank and she gave him all the money. The bank has a note on their screen that says to contact me if there is suspicion of tampering due to past fraud.theft.. My name was also on the account and the bank says there is nothing they can do about it. Nobody called me. How does this happen? I'm livid that it's so easy for some people to pull off these transactions. Could there be an authority that is giving the green light to do this? I'm puzzled.
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mother: I would love to do that.
brother: We need to go to the bank first. We need to close the accounts with with my sister's name and create a new account with mine and your name.
mother: ok son
son: Since you are living with me, we can sell your home and put the money in this new account.
mother: should we tell daughter about this?
son: I'll talk to her later.
Now that we have a better idea and a better view into the picture, I know wonder if the brother was on the account. I'm not sure whether or not you can close an account online like you can in person. I do online banking myself and I never saw this option on my online banking. However, I know you can open accounts online, this is an option in my online banking. I don't know whether or not the rightful owner of the account agreed to closing the account, but I'm starting to wonder if the whole thing is really a scam. There are some scams out there where they can appear as your bank to trick you into giving information. Definitely have the right folder communicate with the bank on this activity.
When I was on the account with my foster dad, any changes needed both of us together at the bank and both of our signatures. I don't know if the brother tricked the rightful owner into closing the account or if it was just a scam appearing as the bank. However, you're definitely want to have the bank look into this if they didn't close the account. They'll contact the head branch for you. I would be very wary if the rightful owner had a lot of money in that account if it really was closed. If it turns out to not be someone posing as the bank, you want to alert the bank to what happen if the rightful owner was not of sound mind when this happened
But I am wondering as in another posting it sounded like your Mom could have dementia because of the way your brother quickly moved your Mom to his house and locked you out, some of us posters were thinking maybe she was making up abuse stories. Apparently at the bank she acted of sound mind.