Who helps children of elderly adults?

finicky, call your local Agency on Aging and see what programs are available for your parents that would also help you.

finicky, it may help to spend some time on this site looking at questions and discussions that apply to your situation. There is a lot you can do. Reading what others have done can give you some idea. The question you asked was really huge, so hard to answer. Please read and choose what seems most right in your situation.