My husband, who was diagnosed with front-temporal dementia about 3 1/2 years ago is retired and I left a full-time job to become his caregiver. He can no longer be left alone and my question is what people may be able to suggest with regard to my being away for things such as funerals. I attended a funeral overnight this past weekend, and it was like pulling teeth to find someone to check on him while I was gone. I'd appreciate any advice or suggestions. Things like this are going to come up, often unexpectedly, and even if it's something he can/should go to, he normally refuses.
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Some Caregiving Agencies have caregivers who only work "emergencies" when there is a last minute call. Now, you may have to pay a higher hourly rate if you can't give them a week's or few days notice. But after time the Agency may start giving you the regular rate.
And as time passes and hubby needs more care, and if it is in the budget, you can have someone come for 3 hours per day during the week to give you a break.
I hired an Agency for my Dad and we went through a few caregivers from the Agency before finding two that were a perfect match, two who could talk to Dad with common interests, and who Dad couldn't wait for them to come in for their shift :)
Having an Agency on speed dial makes life a bit easier.
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