Hi, my nan is 91 and is currently in hospital with a UTI. This is her 8th time she has now been in hospital with a UTI and she displays the symptoms of being confused and tired/weak no energy or talking wierd. Just wondering if anyone has had same experience or knows any ideas on what to do? Without a UTi, she is really healthy. Mum took her to local doctor when she had a UTI and he gave her a course of antibiotics and she was fine, then 3 days after she finished them she got an infection again. Doctor won't prescribe a daily antibiotic because it will affect the kidneys and liver but they are already damaged due to age and the medication she already takes. Just wondering whether seeing urologist will actually help and find solutions for her or if she is just at the age now where she will constantly get them? Without a UTI she is really healthy, she is currently in hospital and doctors are meeting with the family to discuss possiblity of nursing home which she is 100% against. Do the doctors have the right to force her into a nursing home against her will? What can a urologist do for an eldery patient with recurrent UTI's? Thank you in advance, really want to try get some answers from other people who have been through the same thing with close family or friends.
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really appreciate all of your replies, they have given us some good ideas, very helpful. We will have to try get a urologist to see her as well.
2. Not sitting in incontinence pants for too long as the bacteria lingers and travels inwards.
3. Bathing regularly.
4. Toilet 'étiquette' ie in women - i.e. wipe from front to back.
It is a big problem I know - but this is what the Paramedics told me last week when my mum was taken into hospital with a UTI
I used to give them to my mother. She didn't get many uti's, true, but I'm not claiming a direct link there. My view is that they can't hurt and they might help, so why not?
I saw your nan's situation with the UTI's. Many of the senior ladies that I know have them from time to time. My mom actually has seen a Urologist. He told her that sometimes a daily pill is prescribed, but, there are things to consider. I'd discuss with a Urologist if you are leaning that way. My mom decided to try some other things first.
One thing is to address the cause, if you know. Your post says that your nan refuses to drink enough water and to change pads often enough. Even though she may be disagreeable about it, it may be in her best interest to have a person reminding and insisting around the clock. If she's in charge and doesn't change her habits, she's not likely to see things get better. It's just a cycle.
Also, I read some online articles about infections in seniors. It mentioned that infections, if repeatedly occurring, may be very challenging to ever really get rid of. It's just a battle of constantly fighting it and it might pop up in different areas, like you said, in the chest with her as well. I'd ask her doctor about it and see what he thinks. Is he a Geriatric physician?
And yes we hope that they will let her go home and we can increase her package and try to get 24 hour care or a person in at night to put her into bed
With a bit of luck hopefully they let us, but if not there are a lot of positives with nursing homes, the transition will just be hard for her but i think once she would be there she would enjoy it as long as shes got an open mind and will accept it that is :)
Thank you all for the help, if any more ideas please let us know! We will try anything
Glad to see you asking all these questions on behalf of your nan. If the family can provide adequate care at home, I don't think a doctor can force your nan into a nursing home. After my dad's stroke, the social worker was concerned about whether my dad would have enough care at home. But I implemented every suggestion and he was able to come home. I know things change over time so please try to keep all options on the table.
About the UTIs, I know that is very hard. Try the cranberry tablets and see if that will help. It is more difficult as we get older.
Does the family have any power to say no to a nursing home if the doctor actually says she needs to due to their duty of care?
Yeah they catherized her this visit as the wee entered blood system but she recovered from that. Ive read that cranberry juice can be good but does have sugar, read that there are tablets?
Shes got a chest infection and on oxygen so she won't be home for a while/ want her to go to respite care for 2/3 weeks to get her back on her feet depending if the doctors will allow her to go home.
thank you for the responces, some really good ideas
I have heard that drinking cranberry juice will help. I never tired it. Right now I am dealing with a mild UTI due to plumbing issues in my house where the only working toilet was on the main level, at night didn't want to walk downstairs to use the bathroom so I just didn't go.... [sigh], so now I am using an over-the-counter med AZO and I just started the pills this morning and have noticed a difference :)
Does Grandmother live alone at 91? It doesn't sound like she needs to go into a nursing home unless she is having memory issues that are now becoming unsafe for her to live at home, or she is now falling a lot.
Grandmother could hire caregivers to help her during the day, if that is within her budget.... or she can sell her house [if she owns one] and use the equity to pay for Assisted Living where she would be around people her own age that she can talk to, enjoy the activities, have meals in the common dining room, etc. It all depends on what kind of housing is available in your area.