I placed my mom in LTC and she is now hitting and punching the staff when she has to get up and when she has to be changed and anything. She does have a UTI and they are talking about putting her in geropsych for medication adjustment. Is this normal? I’m scared for her to go to geropsych. I don’t understand why she is hitting and punching the staff so much. I can’t even not go over there or have a day off because of her behavior. Please help me feel better about Mom going to geropsych for a few weeks. Does anyone know what they do to the patients there ?
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If she has dementia is she currently seeing a neurologist or psychiatrist- is she on anti anxiety meds and if so are these providers recommending the psych placement?
Who is treating her UTI now ?
What type of LTC facility is mom in now ?
Regular AL probably can't handle anything other than mellow dementia not behavioral problems
While it may be necessary for your mom to be hospitalized try to educate yourself about the geriatric facility - have other residents in her current facility been there and how are they now ?
It was very difficult for me about 15 months ago when my then 93 year old mom escaped her memory care facility and hit the nurse bringing her back inside
Facility threatened psych hold and I fought hard to prevent it as I'd seen others come back zombies and stroke out -
fortunately for us we were able to switch her med from seroquel to risperidone and she became more manageable albeit still a Viking
Please don't misunderstand and think that I would recommend anyone else not agree to the hospitalization if that is what is needed -
If mom had been on a higher dose of seroquel then we may not have been able to switch outside a hospital setting
Please let us know how this works out as no one solution fits all
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Many folks hear "person is being remanded to psych facility" they immediately start to see images of The Snake Pit, or worse.
Modern geriatric psychiatry is about figuring out what meds
( antidepressants, anti anxiety agents, antipsychotics) that will help your loved one.
For some it is hard to wrap your head around that your loved one is off to the psych unit. My little sister had a mini meltdown about the whole idea.
I was happy Mom was getting the help she needed.
What type of facility is your mother in? I ask, because, in the beginning, my LO was in a regular AL. She did not want to get out of bed in the morning. Didn't want to bathe or go to dining room. This is not unusual for a dementia patient, but, the staff were not trained to work with her. If they had pushed her to get up, she might have become violent. They didn't but, called me, but, there are ways to work with a person under these conditions. It takes time, training and proper guidelines. I found that a Memory Care unit, was best suited as they had those things and once there, the problems were addressed. It ALSO helped that my LO went on medications for anxiety and depression. Those can also cause the patient to act unusual. I'd discuss it with the doctor and hopefully, in the hospital they can get medication that helps her. STill, I'd explore to see if she's getting the right level of care at her existing facility.
Was she combative at home and is that what led to her placement?
Can they wait on the geriatric psych placement until the UTI has been treated for a bit? The Psych people are not going to get an accurate baseline measurement of her behavior if she's in the middle of a UTI.
My mother's BEST care over the last 6 years of her life came from geriatric psychiatrists. I understand that not everyone has the same experience, but they seemed to be the only medical specialty docs that actually looked at the whole patient, body, mind and environment.
For example. I've seen staff who should know better seize hold of a patient and manhandle her without introduction or explanation. Not hurting her, mind. Just not giving her a chance to understand what the heck is going on or providing any reassurance that all is well.
How much confidence do you have in the leadership and expertise of the staff in this facility?