Can a skilled nursing facility force me to bring my husband home even though I have my own health issues & we have been separated for 3 years?

My husband has LBD and can no longer walk or help himself. He had been living alone until he took a fall and now his health and weight have declined drastically. He was the one who took care of the finances on-line, but little did I know we were drowning in debt. Now, I am doing my best to dig us out of debt. What I am finding out, that even if I signed over every check he receives, I still cannot afford AL, MC, or NH, so what do people do when you are between the rock and the hard place? I need an answer quickly, please, can I be forced to bring him home when I can't care for him properly and I also am my mom's caregiver (but she can still walk, dress and feed herself and is not incontinent).