Hi All,
This is my first post here. My mother has many health issues. One of the most pressing is her hearing loss. She refuses to go get her hearing checked and wear a hearing aid. Her father was the exact same way. It didn't help that one of her friends mentioned that her aid doesn't work well in noisy environments. Anyone have experience with hearing aids or how to convince a loved one to use one? Thanks.
8 Answers
Helpful Newest
First Oldest
First
Last night at a family BBQ he was talking so loudly--even the gkids were asking him to stop yelling. He yelled at me (his conversational tone) and one of my daughters said "dad, stop being a jerk to mom!" Nice of her to have my back, but he didn't hear her.
I don't shout at him anymore. I walk into the room where he is, get his attention and talk in a calm, normal tone of voice. Otherwise he misses everything.
It depresses me terrifically. It isn't 'about' me, but it sure affects me. I have appealed to DH to please meet me halfway on this and he simply, will NOT.
DH is an engineer. I thought THAT alone would entrance him into the 'techie' side of hearing aides. Nope, he doesn't care.
Yet he complains endlessly about his stone deaf mother. Go figure.
ADVERTISEMENT
What I did, and we have only had it for 3 weeks, so early days yet.
In England, we have a site called Hearing Direct. So I went there and looked round a bit. Saw that there was some 'hearing assist' devices.
Settled on getting Geemarc CL7350 Opti Wireless TV Listener (Got it for £69 (ish) ) which is a bit costly but IF IT WORKS???
When it cam, I took a bit of time setting it up for him and then told him.
I called it TV BUDS. He loves it. I think there is a way so that he can keep them in and hear speech, but I have not yet found out how.
But I will settled for little miracles.
Good luck
The cost is not cheap. My DHs are around 2k each. Shakingdustoff, That box with the wire maybe the best thing. Not trying to discourage anyone from getting aids just trying to explain why ur parents don't use them. And, its hard for us to know if the mold is too tight or is the volume set comfortably for them. For them, they don't have the patience to deal with them.
Now when my own Mom got hearing aids her hearing was just about totally gone, thus I still had to shout when talking. I was very embarrassed whenever I was shopping with her, as people probably thought I was yelling at my Mom.... [sigh]
I love her, so much!