Mom tends to forget to brush her teeth and also not wash her hands after using the bathroom. Occasionally I get a whiff of bad breath and I also worry abut her careless hand wishing. But at 82, she is generally in good physical health (initial stages of dementia). So I have been handing her Listerine cups and hovering around her to make sure she uses it. She has all original teeth but they are all gappy and yellow.
I also squirt hand sanitizer if she will let me.
How important are these things as she goes farther into her dementia journey? Will her teeth be affected in the long run????
Thanks so much
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Dry mouth also is known to contribute to cavity formation. Saliva contains lactoferrin and other substances that prevent cavities,
There are mouth washed that do not contain alcohol and actually are made to keep the mouth moist.
Perhaps those will be a better choice.
Brushing is best, but if she refuses, rinsing is certainly the best second choice.
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Try it for all so she washes those hands - start when others are there & are on board so she will see it is the usual [FYI my 2 & 3 YO grandchildren wash their hand & come for the sniff test] - it's worth the try & if it works then that is 1 worry off you - I hope this works for you
If you need her teeth to last 30 years then worry about it - if less make a call - maybe group listerine swishing which is better than nothing - what was her prior teeth issues? this can be a contributing factor - I had a bad problem after a wisdom tooth extraction so doing teeth is an issue for me as I generally gag every time I brush my teeth - maybe settle for 3 times a week rather than force the issue
Sugar free gum helps. Floride mouth since is good!
If her mouth gets dry, skip stuff NH uses. Bioteen gel lasts far longer, tastes great. Dry mouth is very bad for gums and teeth. With Dementia, avoid Bioteem mouthwash. If she swallow it, it will make her sick to the stomach. Gel can be swallowed, no problem.
Personal Experience!
My mom experienced this too. It started with the lack of hand washing then a refusal to wash. Bear in mind when the hand washing refusal started, I had already been assisting her during bathroom trips because I first noticed 'accidents' in her underwear when I did her laundry--clearly she wasn't wiping appropriately and needed help. So, look out for this and other signs, and perhaps start accompanying her to assist in toileting. The hand washing problem evolved to her being downright agitated and aggressive when I tried to intervene and assist with this. I tried remaining calm and not escalating things, speaking to her in a pleasant voice and making sure the water was an inviting warm temperature. I added hand massages and fragrant smelling soaps to the routine as well as had various alternatives like hand sanitizer, wipes, or a wet soapy washcloth to offer if she just wasn't willing with soap and running water. It was really a painstaking process, but I did whatever it took because I am a hygiene freak.
As the illness progressed she became incontinent and now has us caregivers handling toileting; her hands became very contracted and in fist configurations, so it has been even harder to manage, but I still find appropriate methods to keep her hands clean, like soaking them in warm soapy water.
Not long after the hand washing issue came her disinterest in her oral hygiene. This one totally shocked and really depressed me because my mom was a dentist assistant married to my dad--a dentist--and SHE used to brush and floss multiple times a day! Her teeth were in great shape going into the dementia, but suddenly, no more flossing, and then she would not even open her mouth to let me brush them. Again, I tried different tactics, for example, switching to an electric brush (Oral B), and that helped some with the process. I couldn't floss her because she too would bite me, so I started using Go-Betweens (Proxabrushes) which helped.
Next, she would not spit out the water after rinsing either holding it in for long periods or just swallowing it, so I started using an aspirator to suction her mouth. I add alcohol free Listerine to her rinsing water, and sometimes she swallows this but that's okay. I still use a paste with flouride because she was getting bad decay from baby toothpaste or the flouride-free ones.
In terms of cleanings, I now use dentists that make home visits because she is now homebound (confined to a wheelchair). Sadly two of her teeth recently broke off and one chipped due to severe grinding and accumulation of plaque, as the aides I have had were not as diligent about her oral care. The dentists emphasized using flouride toothpastes and proxa brushes as well as raising up/pulling down her lips while brushing to really get into those hard to reach areas. I also have my mom rinse out her mouth after every meal (super helpful) and I brush her morning and before bed. It is more work, but I will do what's needed to help her retain her teeth.
So please don't give up. Just be sure to modify your approach with new tactics and tools and more vigilance and assistance of your loved one. And check with your local Alz. Association chapter &/or MD for referrals of visiting dentists, particularly those who work with dementia clients because they will have experience dealing with these issues.
Last tip that I've been using for myself & my mom is one recommended by a periodontist that involves brushing with baking soda, leaving on a coating of the soda and then rinsing with a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar for fighting and repelling plaque. (For more details on this, search YouTube for 'Simple, but Powerful Gum Treatment Strategy - with Nadine Artemis'.) It works!
Although she wouldn't allow us to floss her teeth she did allow me to brush her teeth, and then she rinsed with a glass of water. Otherwise, she would not have been able to brush her teeth any longer. The dentist / hygienist were unable to help her because they said she would become combative in the chair. At that point something was better than nothing, so at least we were able to brush her teeth for her!
God bless you for taking care of your loved one!
The other problem is a lot of people with dementia become non compliant with allowing oral care.
The chance of aspiration increases as well and there is a lot of water used when cleaning the teeth. Not to mention getting someone to rinse and spit out the abrasive cleaning paste.
It all has to be judged on the individual person.
I gave my Husband a mild sedative the dentist prescribed before his appointment. I did not like what sedation did to him, it took a long time for him to recover from any type of sedative. Even with the sedative he was non compliant and the dentist said he could refer him to another dentist that would use a stronger medication but I did not like what the mild sedative did to him. It took a while for him to recover from it. Not to mention it was dangerous and difficult for me to get him back home as he was very unsteady on his feet.
There are oral swabs that are a firm foam, some have a toothpaste like product embedded in them so when you moisten it it can be used as a brush or you can use it to swab the roof of of the mouth as well as the gums and tongue.
If you can not find the swabs use a brush but use a toothpaste and or a mouth wash that does not contain alcohol or fluoride.
One of the reasons that we placed mom in a NH is that was assistance with these essential ADLs.
my mom thinks she brushes well. but the hygienist always removes a bunch of crud.(plaque etc)
maybe buy a large bottle with pump of hand sanitizer. but with supervision
or check her hands during the day. and pay attention to under the nails.