The caregivers that are taking care of my relative who has Alzheimer's have been liquefying her food and putting it into a funnel type plastic thing and putting it down her throat. I've only witnessed it a few times but the caregivers are usually the only ones there taking care of her. She refuses to eat sometimes and I guess they have had to resort to that. Is that legal to force feed someone like that? It was extremely upsetting to see her do that.
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There are many reasons why someone does not want to eat, it may be constipation, diarrhea, urinary retention, fluid building up in the lungs or abdomen.
At the end of life people don't feel the need to eat and probably don't need to as the body needs less and less fuel. Offer small amounts of soft easy to eat food you know she likes,
When it is necessary to maintain nutrition it can be done IV with Total Parental Nutrition, This requires an IV line to be inserted into a large vein in the chest. Nasal tubes are the easiest to use but rather uncomfortable long term, or a J (jejunal) tube can be inserted into the small intestine through the belly wall. All can be managed at home with instruction but do not expect the average CNA to have much idea of what to do. Hospice will usually discourage this type of artificial feeding but encourage the loved one to drink and make sure the mouth is kept clean.
Do not let something that is clearly wrong continue, speak up , talk to the caregivers and notify the POA.
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Get a doctor involved, get a hospice evaluation. Forcing food is going to cause her to choke to death and that's the least dignified outcome here.
Seriously?
Never mind the law, never mind the ethics - just think of the choking risk. This sounds horrific.
Are these professional caregivers? Is your relative living in her own home, somebody else's home, or a facility?
Who is responsible for your relative's care?
If she refuses to eat, she has that right. End of life frequently involves the body shutting down and refusing food. Carers have not 'had to resort' to force feeding. No-one 'has to resort to that'. Are these in-home carers, or are they in a facility? In either case, talk to who is employing them, make sure they know what is happening, and find out about the reasons.