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lona0722 Asked December 2018

Can a conservator say who can and can't visit the person they're over when that person is in the hospital? What if I already had POA?

The papers said that this person (his mother) should be and hereby appointed over the person (fiancee/living togther 5yrs) and estate of that someone and that as conservator, bond, inventory and accounting unto the court be waved. How can they get conservatorship with out knowing if I already had poa over this someone?

JoAnn29 Dec 2018
Is you boyfriend competent? Meaning is there a reason he can't make choices like he is in a coma or somekind of brain damage due to an accident. Because what I just read says conservator is like a guardian. You get it usually because the person can't handle his/her money and it goes thru the courts. POA is not court binding. Its assigned, and if the person cannot make informed decisions, then guardianship will override POA. Just wondering, were you aware of a hearing? That way you could have shown BF had a POA assigned. His Mom would have had to prove why the POA should be revolked.

So yes, a conservator can say who and who can't visit. Just wondering if the Judge knew a POA was in place.
lona0722 Dec 2018
No I was not notified of the hearing r anything i went and got a copy of the conservatorship paper and from the way it sounds the judge was not aware of my power of attorney papers and he was in a bad car wreck and was n a medical induced coma for almost 2 wks but he woke up the day before she showed up at the hospital with the papers and had them tell me I had to leave and coildnt come bk and that they wasnt allowed to give me any information on him no longer and that was a wk ago and the reason his mom is like that is Because they dont like me and have tried every thing over the past yrs to split us up and keep us apart and this is her way of keeping us apart
Sendhelp Dec 2018
Iona,
Please ignore the Dr. Robert comment and "troll", as he is a spammer and will be removed from the forum.

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Sendhelp Dec 2018
Iona,
What do you think the problem is with you not being allowed to see your fiance?
Is his mother preventing you in some way?
lona0722 Dec 2018
Because they dont like me and have tried every thing over the past yrs to split us up and keep us apart and this is her way of keeping us apart
Ahmijoy Dec 2018
Troll

Ahmijoy Dec 2018
Lona, I know you’re trying to get an answer without giving out too much personal information, but your post is confusing and very hard to understand. Please re-write your post, don’t use abbreviations and give us a little more information so we can try to help you. Thanks.

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