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Trisha1958 Asked January 2019

I was wondering at what age should I give my daughter POA?

I am only 60 but went through a lot of money and heartache to get conservatorship of my Mom due to her dementia and a UTI. She would not give me any decisions to make for her. It was a mess. I do not want my family to go through that with me.

cwillie Jan 2019
The "springing" type of POA seems to be very popular here on the forum, but getting it sprung has been a real roadblock for some people. My mom's POA was en force as soon as the ink was dry and I was able to help her with banking and bill payments long before she became incapacitated. The way I look at it setting up POA is kind of like selecting a guardian for your minor children, something you tuck away and hopefully never need. If, however, you have any doubts about the trustworthiness of those in your family then a springing POA may be the only way to go.

Countrymouse Jan 2019
Sooner the better, really. A springing DPOA comes into force only when it's needed - bearing in mind it may never be needed, of course - and otherwise just sits in the file minding its own business. Thus, there are zero drawbacks to having it ready; just remember to revisit it every so often to make sure it's still fit for purpose.

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Trisha1958 Jan 2019
Ok thank you I appreciate your response.

againx100 Jan 2019
I think you can set it up now, with the provision that the POA ONLY kicks in when you are proven to be incapable of making your own decisions.

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