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Jerhiboyt329 Asked January 2019

My cousin came to stay with Dad after heart surgery. Dad has to pay for everything. She won't work, clean or cook. What can we do about it?

She is just using him. She won't even call his kids when something happens. She has him buying her cigarettes, she sales her link card she don't pay rent and now ugg has her son there. They are taking over his house. What can we do about it?

gladimhere Jan 2019
How long ago was the surgery? Did he have the option for rehab after surgery? Is cousin being paid for this service? How old is dad? Who thought to ask cousin to come and help? More info would be helpful.

Daughterof1930 Jan 2019
The answer lies with your dad. It’s his home and if has a sound mind he can choose who lives with him. If he isn’t happy with the situation he needs to change it. If he doesn’t have a sound mind then it becomes a different matter

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Ahmijoy Jan 2019
What does your dad say about it? Does he want them out as well? It’s his house and if he is ok with this situation, there isn’t much you can do. However, if he also wants them out, go over there with the police and have her and her son leave while the police are there. Then change the locks. If Dad is easily taken advantage of, get Power of Attorney and take over his finances.

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