My 80 year old father started forgetting words and had trouble remembering conversations 2 years ago. He had an MRI for something else and I privately asked Dr if he could see any signs of Alzheimer’s. He couldn’t. Now my father is forgetting appts. And forgets to check text messages and email. Is this normal part of aging? Or are these signs of something more? I would love for him to see the Dr again but he doesn’t realize he’s getting so forgetful so doesn’t see the need. Yet plenty of us see it. Anyone else have experience in this? Any Advice would be helpful. Thanks
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Martz, as for forgetting appointments, I assume your Dad is retired. When one retires every day can become groundhog day.
For myself, I need to jot down the appointment on a large calendar in the kitchen, even though I am still working. No longer can I remember it using my brain as my only appointment book. I still use the old fashioned Day-Timers, no need to charge them up at night :)
You know stress has a lot to do with forgetfulness.
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If you know Dad has an appointment, be a good kid and call him the day before to remind him. He has to come to the realization that he’s getting more forgetful by himself and willingly visit his doctor. It’s not an easy thing to admit. You can suggest, prefacing it by telling him you’re concerned and ask him to do it. “for me, Dad.”