Every morning when I talk to him he tells me he barely made it out alive. And he thinks he’s coming home that day... every day. I have to tell him he has a few more weeks left to get stronger so I can take care of him and that upsets him.
Mom not sure how to handle this. Any advice plz ?
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Have the facility test for a UTI (these can often cause delusions and psychiatric symptoms in elders) and get the geriatric psychiatrist who visits the facility to see your dad asap!
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Do not take him out of the facility against medical advice. It could affect his insurance coverage. I know it’s devastating to listen to him cry and plead. But, it is the dementia. He will hallucinate no matter where he is. At least here, he is supervised and cared for around the clock. You can always speak with his doctor or the nurse and ask if there are meds he could take for anxiety.
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I just got off the phone with him. He is so scared. They are about to eat dinner and he was almost begging me to get him out of there. He said he wasn’t going to be as lucky tonight and this would be the night they get him. 😢