I blocked my mom from using Google chrome on her phone some months ago cause she kept giving out her phone number to dealerships. I discovered this morning she's still at it on her tablet. Not only with dealerships but she fails to distinguish fake news from real news, will research anything that pops into her head and waste hours on end on the device.
She has a 2017 Nissan Altima she's still paying for but at the moment she isn't able to drive it (concussion). I think she's trying to get her independence but fails to see she needs to recover and accept help.
I admit I was here before asking about how to save proof your home for a dementia parent but now I've learned my mom might have a concussion instead.
Back to the question - should I block my mom from the internet until her judgement gets better?
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Can I recommend caution and careful steps when trying to protect her. She is able to make her own choices, good, bad and ugly. I get you are only trying to protect her, but any complaints about your actions could cause you more problems than you can imagine. Just a heads up.
Protection without impingement of her personal rights is how you want to approach it. Don't do anything that can be misconstrued as isolation. Protecting her credit vs. cutting her internet access is a good example of how to think with it.
Good luck with her recovery, may it be complete and speedy. May you find the ways to protect her from herself until she is better.
On the other hand, I constantly am concerned for my mom. I was thinking about only allowing family numbers allowed on her phone.
My mom knows her social security number and all it takes is one time giving out personal information to the wrong person. Same with banking info, credit card numbers and so forth. I catch her talking to strangers even though I have repeatedly told her not to answer the phone to unknown numbers.
Does your mom have an email? That’s another way they scam. Emails get hacked into as well. Someone hacked my uncle’s email.
I would at least use parental blocks. I used it when my children were younger. How gullible is your mom?
I can tell by your post that you are not interested in controlling your mom but you are interested in protecting her. Best of luck to you.
Take care.
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Is mom living with you? How long?
Be grateful that a concussion may be all you are dealing with. Don't try to control every thing mom does, it would be impossible.