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judyberryman Asked April 2019

My mother has dementia. Rehab for five weeks. AL appears to be setting a case for her to not return. Would memory care be better?

She lived alone until she broker her hip in January. 


The Assisted Living took her and she has been there.


During that time she calls the police a lot. Sometimes she’s in pain, sometimes she says she’s having a heart attack.


Tonight she was admitted for decline in mental health.


AL appears to be setting a case for her to not return. They seem to drop statements like a memory care unit would be better. Are we fighting a losing battle, would memory care be better?

judyberryman Apr 2019
Thank you, we have a neurologist appt. in a couple weeks, with dementia Alz special.

Isthisrealyreal Apr 2019
Does she have a neurologist? If not, get her a referral, they will help establish where she is really at and the appropriate level of care.

Hospitalization can cause a person with dementia to become further confused, sometimes it is temporary and sometimes it is the beginning of a downward spiral.

The AL she is in may not be suitable to keep her safe.

That should be addressed with a neurologist or a geriatrician. Hospitalists are not a good resource for this, in my experience they work in the hospital because they are to ignorant to have a practice. Please get her a specialist and get a diagnosis for her.

It will help all of you to know what the right placement is.

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