My dad is a young 70 year old who is extremely able bodied and in fine physical health EXCEPT for the fact that he has advanced dementia with aggression and wandering. I've now learned that memory care facilities, despite sometimes being called "locked" dementia units, are not actually locked due to fire codes. It seems that most people in memory care are relatively frail, so the concept of someone being able to literally push open the door, set off the alarm, and run out makes my dad a liability, and this level of physical capability to elope from the facility is not actually common.
So my dad apparently requires an additional "private duty aid" to sit there with him 24/7 and make sure he doesn't run away. Obviously this is extremely expensive, and will drain all his assets in no time. What happens when all his money is gone? We've heard a number of rumors that SOME facilities will allow residents to stay and will somehow find a way to bill Medicaid, despite the fact that no memory care facility advertises this. Has anyone dealt with the draining of assets and the process of what comes next? Obviously people will not be thrown on the street, but I'd like to know how it all works.
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The facility we chose has locked and alarmed doors. The staff need to use a fob to unlock the doors that allow egress (central garden area doors excepted, as there is no way to leave the premises from there.) Mom only "tested" the doors when she had a UTI and was adamant she needed to go home as she had guests coming. Otherwise she doesn't bother with the doors.
(some NH do have memory units, however my understanding is that in general NH is for those who require skilled nursing care, not just oversight for dementia - they are, in general, more expensive too, given that they would need more nurses for that skilled care.)
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I had premium insurance including long term care. It was useless because I kept Christy at home.
I had to enroll her in Medicaid when I retired early to care for her.
Medicaid in this state is exceptional and will provide 24/7 care in a facilty or in her home, if needed.
However, there are no facilities capable of her care. The managed care health plans deceive and manipulate to win the contract bid, then do as they please.
We had to relocate family members from other states to be home care attendants.
They are paid by Medicaid for 3 shifts 7 days per week.
That is Congress intent to keep her out of a facility.
I am respecting our much criticized Congress.
I finally moved him into a small senior group home.
A residence transformed in a home. There are alarms on all the doors.
2 to 6 ratio days. 1 to 6 midnights.
If he calls out, they can hear him.
It's a god-send....
Not all the bells and whistles, yet he's no longer interested in all that...
They do engage with residents during the day to keep them occupied.
All the best to you and yours
You should not have to pay for 24/7 shadowing in a MC facility. It would be cheaper to have him in the alz wing of a SNF.
Find out for certain and not from rumors what goes on. I can say that the facility told me my mother needed an aide to stay with her. It was self-pay and $20 an hour. I finally put an end to it when she proved, at least at that time, not to be a flight risk. When they put wander guard ankle monitors on her and she cut each one off, we moved her to Memory Care.
Branwow, I was hired to "babysit"
A patient in NH.@ $8- AN HR.
goodness, must they profit families to death!!!