Moral dilemma:
What advice can you all give me?
1. Asking mum directly do you want to continue not eating/small sips of tea only and go from this life
2. If she had a "me" there (am her former full time caregiver) that truly cares to help her come around, 110% effort would mum want to live?
3. Battle with the Wolves (siblings) to get mums gp to make unannounced visit and true assessment in order to save her even though I will go through the mill with siblings...again...
I would be grateful to hear from anyone here that has gone through this thanks
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She is in a facility? Or living with one of your siblings? I’m wondering if your siblings are seeing something you are not—that Mom is ready to go. Or, are you saying they are denying her medical care? A doctor visit might not be a bad idea. She may express her wishes to her doctor,wishes she might not want to share with you. And it might do you good to speak with her doctor as well.