Is there a program in the state of Oklahoma where a family member can be paid to care for a parent at home?

RobynCu, the vast majority of family caregivers are not paid.... unless the parent can pay from their own savings account. One would need to draw up an employment-agreement.

If money is tight, you can contact your State Medicaid [which is different from Medicare] office to see if the parent can qualify, and see what type of programs are available through the State.