I'm beyond frustrated through this process.
Background. Mom has pulmonary fibrosis and she in end stages of disease. Earlier this month hospitalized with UTI. Plan was discharge w hospice. I thought I did my due diligence, asked my friends who been through this for recommendations and then followed with questions. One of my must haves are Spanish speaking Nurses for my mom. I specifically stated Spanish speaking Rn, Lvn and bath nurse. Surprisingly many hospices didn't have Spanish speaking RN. Ok.
1st hospice I chose ended up being very pushy, even though I already told them they have our business. I fired them after they continued to be pushy after warning them. 2nd hospice said they had Spanish RN. Came time to set up admissions to hospice, no Spanish RN, so I fired them. My moms UTI came back and week later return trip to hospital. Hospital helped me with few more hospices, again vetted them and decided on company who said they had Spanish RN. I was very transparent with why I fired last 2 hospices. It's Thursday 4pm. Dr said my mom ready for discharge tomorrow morning, great! Hospice now tells me no Spanish RN available as she has full case load!!! Wtf?!?! I feel like these companies tell you what you want to hear so you sign up , put you between a rock n hard place.
In the meantime, I've had several people from social workers to doctors saying that I am not ready to face hospice and end of life care. Ok. Maybe that's why I fired 1st two. But again from the start, one of my must haves are Spanish speakers, so it is wrong of me to fire 3rd hospice who reassured me they had Spanish speaker and not able to deliver?! It's not whether I want hospice or not, but my mom definitely needs it. It scares me I have a hard time identifying another level of decline. A nurse who visits regularly could spot this better than I. But at the same time I refuse to be manipulated into something I don't want. Hospice and nursing homes seem to be predatory and thirsty for Medicare dollars.
Am am I the one who is being difficult and in denial?
How do I choose a hospice that I can trust that meets my needs? I'm in Southern California and surprised it's been hard to filled skilled RN that speak Spanish. My mom scheduled to discharge tomorrow morning.
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Now one more thing. I am concerned that some have said you are not ready to accept hospice care. You do understand hospice care being end of life care? Am I correct in assuming that. And you are read for that?
You are also correct in assuming that Hospice is not what it once was. Very few are, in fact. During my career I saw Hospice's beginning in our country.So many so dedicated and such comprehensive full care of patient and family. My friend still works in hospice. What it was is gone and it is now fully a part of the Military Industrial Complex. That is to say, follow the money. It is business more than once it was for certain. There are still some marvelous ones. I suspect they are few and far between.
They WILL discharge you mother when she is ready to be home, whether hospice is in place or not. I would go for as many Spanish Speaking people as you are able. I am assuming you will be there to interpret much of the time? Would that be a correct assumption.
Wishing you the very best. This is a hard time.
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You might ask the discharge person at the hospital for help in finding a service with an assured available Spanish speaking team, they must run into this problem somewhat regularly if you keep running into it.
Then my final thought is asking the coordinator for the companies you like the best if there is any way a Spanish speaking nurse can be made available, maybe there is a patient who doesn't need a Spanish speaker and wouldn't mind switching nurses or for the other aids coming in to be Spanish speakers until a nurse becomes available or how long it is likely to be before a Spanish speaking nurse is available. Perhaps a Spanish speaker could come for the set up or come with the non Spanish speaker for the set up to help facilitate both mom's and your comfort. Remember a good Hospice provider/agency is there to support you and the family as well as your mom, they take and provide a wholistic family service for this difficult time and recognize the differing needs of everyone affected.
Good luck and remember taking care of yourself at this time is also taking care of Mom, keep up the loving work.
So like said, someone who speaks Spanish can be there for Mom. And I agree, that the CNA would be the one who needs to speak it.
I am from NJ. I too am surprised that they are short on Spanish speaking RNs. But then I was at Moms LTC and a woman was hollering in Spanish. One staff member came up to her speaking Spanish. She told me she was the only one on that shift that spoke it. Really?
There was an Italian lady who only spoke Italian. My RN daughter says when people have Dementia, they tend to go back to the language of their birth and forget their second language.
So as your daughter has seen, we definitely need more nurses with the ability to speak various foreign languages. One would think that in California where “Mama2drama” has her mother, there would be multiple agencies filled with Spanish-speaking staff, but what we might think seems logical, may not be a reality.
I enjoy reading your answers on this site. You can tell that you’ve learned a few things in life.
Let's face it. There are a number of factors here.
1. This is the United States where English is the primary language. 2. Spanish speaking workers are needed in every line of work in the country.
3. There is a major shortage of caregivers, nurses, CNA's, etc.
I would let the next company know you will fire them if they claim to have yet cant provide a Spanish speaking nurse. In all reality, you need to realize it just might not be possible.
Hire an Interpreter.
Best of luck and keep up the good work.
Since both the Nurse and the CNA schedule visits and the CNA will be the one that will work more closely with your Mom it might be better to "push" for a CNA that is fluent in Spanish. I am guessing you would be there for the visits with the Nurse so you could translate if necessary.
You are right about being surprised that there are few nurses that speak Spanish in your area. Unless they are finding employment in Hospitals if more lucrative for them.
Dealing with your Mom, her hospitalizations, decline as well as your health problems my guess is you are overwhelmed.
Ask again about getting a CNA that is fluent I think that will be more of a benefit than the Nurse simply due to the type of contact the CNA has and how much time she/he will spend.
By the way the term you used "Lvn" not sure what that is. I had a Nurse, the CNA that did personal care, bath, dressing him, ordering supplies, weight or measurements etc, then there was a Social Worker and a Chaplain.
The Spanish language skills ARE proving a problem. I'm surprised, too. But since they are, and since the main reason you yourself state for needing hospice on board is the nursing skills, and specifically the ability to spot key clinical signs, then surely it would be better to prioritise those nursing skills and relegate the language skills to "nice to have" rather than "must have."
Experienced hospice nurses are practised in communicating with people who can't speak, can't hear, or even can't understand at all. It isn't that I think you're being intentionally difficult, or in denial, but I think perhaps you're not giving enough credit to skilled nurses' ability to care very well for patients they can't necessarily have a proper conversation with.
They can send a home-care aide, but they are only there less than an hour a few times a week at most. I wish I could take mom off of hospice, but I can't since she is 100% homebound and I just can't take her to the doctor. Getting your loved one on hospice initially requires a doctor's order. Afterward you can revoke and get them back on hospice without an order. More on this later.
Hospice nurse practitioners and doctors don't like treating problems like frequent urinary tract infections and you get the usual speech just let them die and keep them comfortable, which means drug them up with narcotics and let them die of dehydration which can take weeks. If the treatment is inadequate, and the hospice doctor/nurse practitioner does not want to work with you, then tell them you are taking them to the Emergency Room. I've done this to mom lots of times due to the stubbornness of hospice. AS LONG AS YOU NOTIFY THEM--which you MUST--because the ambulance and emergency room visit bill will entirely fall on hospice. MEDICARE PAYS HOSPICE $4,000 a MONTH for care, and you get hospital equipment like bed, oxygen, and so on, and a nurse to visit you once a week for a few minutes and they help with supplies like diapers, wipes, gloves, thick-it, but there are times you have to buy your own. Hospice and Medicare are apparently separate accounts.
Hospice will NOT authorize a feeding tube should that need arise. You have to revoke hospice--then get them hospitalized--get the feeding tube inserted which is a surgical procedure and probably overnight stay--then get them BACK on hospice afterward. Revoking hospice is very simple. Just sign a paper and it's done. Getting them BACK on hospice is equally easy. Just call a hospice and since they were on hospice already you do NOT need a doctor's order. Talk to a hospice social worker before doing all of this. If they support and work with you, you may want to get back on the same hospice. If not screw them and get them on another hospice.
I already fired VITAS.. for your information they are FOR PROFIT hospice.
I cannot stress enough IF you got your loved on on hospice, and you intend to do Emergency Room visit--you MUST notify your hospice first. They cannot deny you this visit. And yes if hospitalized, hospice will also pay for that.
I googled Spanish speaking hospice southern California there were a number of hits. Have you talked with Bella Vida? Exclusive servicing Spanish speaking.
http://www.bellavidahospice.org/english/home.html