What is the best way to move a person with dementia to a nursing home when they are combative if they have to do anything new?

He does not like anyone other then my mother helping him and sometimes gets angry at her when she tries to help him. He immediately yells no and puts up a fist like he's going to hit you. I'm worried he'll freak out on us when we take him. He is pretty much non verbal and 93 yrs old.