My husband does not want to leave the house during the day, stays inside and watch TV. Caring for his animals seems to be none. Advice?

If your husband won't listen to you about the animals, does he have friends or people he respects in the industry who might come and talk to him about what's best to do now that he needs to "wind down a little"?

I like Tothills answer.

He has Dementia/ALZ and can no longer reason or have empathy towards u. In it was me, I think these are the first things to go. They become like Toddlers. They need structure. I doubt if he went out to care for them, he would remember how to do it right. Me, they would be gone. Like Tot said, leave a couple but get rid of the rest. When he doesn't see any cows, tell him they must be way out in the field or in the barn.

Really, since he never goes out, would he know if they were there. Maybe find a way to get him away from the house and let someone come and get them.

People seem more worried about the cows than the husband! Has he ever had a cognitive test or been diagnosed with depression? Sounds like he's probably a tough ol' bird (in a good way) so getting him to the doc may not be easy? Nonetheless, I would start with a diagnosis. He may have dementia, ALZ, brain tumor, stroke, etc., but you can't address it unless you know what "it" is. Maybe tell him he needs a physical for his insurance renewal or some other "story"? Re: the cows - can you consult with other rancher friends or neighbors for advice? Wishing you answers and solutions!

Is it possible to hire a ranch hand (sorry that might not be the right word) to handle the cattle work for now? Down the road it might be easier for him to agree to selling.

Well you know it is far too much for you to work, care for your husband and manage 100 head of cattle.

A couple thoughts. Mum has a cousin who is now a widow and she and her late husband raise beef cattle. After her husband died, she sold off all but a couple cows. One was an old favourite, well past her prime, but almost a pet. She kept another cow which she has bred each year since his death. She could not imagine not having any cows around. Could you sell off most the herd and just keep one or two? Then when you hubby has a good day, he has a couple cows around. Can you lease your fields if you have a hay operation too?

Mum's cousin at 82 is now thinking of selling the land and moving into town. She has lived on the remote ranch for 50 years or so, it will be hard for her to leave, but she is not looking forward to another winter.

Second thought, do you know of any young farmers who maybe interested in taking over the operation? Perhaps you can make an arrangement for them to buy the herd, lease the property, allowing you and your husband to stay in the house for the time being?