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Monevan2 Asked November 2019

My brother lives in my moms in-law, should he have a lease?

He’s not paying for utilities, oil, and not helping with household chores. Recently he told my mother that I am planning to sell her house and kick her out.

Monevan2 Nov 2019
She has a form of dementia similar to Parkinson’s.

gladimhere Nov 2019
He isn't taking any responsibility living there? Sponging? Evict him. Not worth the stress of trying to get him to pay anything.
Monevan2 Nov 2019
He’s always sponged but somehow she always goes along with it because she thinks he does so much for her.

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anonymous912123 Nov 2019
Who ever owns the property can give him a 30 day eviction notice letter, and if he doesn't leave the sheriff can escort him out.
Monevan2 Nov 2019
My mother owns the property and has a reverse mortgage so she lives there mtg free but pays all taxes, oil, water etc. he pays a measly $600 a month fora 2 bedroom apartment and uses her car and she pays the insurance.

she said she can still make decisions even though she has not managed any of her finances or medical care since 2013 or so. I think he coerces her into thinking it’s the right decision to make.

i called an elder law attorney to help.

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