Are you upset about hospice for mom? Your profile state mom was put on hospice by sis. Sis cannot order hospice the need for hospice is determined by doctors and hospice providers.
Mom has dementia and incapacitated so, no mom cannot be moved without consent of sis. Sis cannot just decide that you cannot visit or talk to mom without a reason. Has there been interactions between the two of you that upset mom?
You sound very angry and frustrated, I would be too. There must be some back story to this. You provided care for the parents for awhile, why did you stop?
I cared for parents (mom and stepdad) and quit after four years because of the stress that my twisted sissies caused. I just could not take it any more.
I then became the family exile. I was not able to get info from POA sis even when I asked for updates. Such is life in extremely dysfunctional families. Try to just let it go, you know your mom would not want to see you and your twisted sissy getting on like this.
When my mom was placed on hospice care, I found out through the grapevine. When stepdad was hospitalized, quite ill, I was not on his list of family members. They can become so cruel and vindictive.
No. Your profile indicates your parent has Alzheimer’s. You’ll need permission from the POA or you have to go to court and be aoooonted guardian. I think you need to stop for a minute and think about this—sounds like you are in another state and you don’t know what your parent’s life is like day to day and they may need more care than you can provide.
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Mom has dementia and incapacitated so, no mom cannot be moved without consent of sis. Sis cannot just decide that you cannot visit or talk to mom without a reason. Has there been interactions between the two of you that upset mom?
You sound very angry and frustrated, I would be too. There must be some back story to this. You provided care for the parents for awhile, why did you stop?
I cared for parents (mom and stepdad) and quit after four years because of the stress that my twisted sissies caused. I just could not take it any more.
I then became the family exile. I was not able to get info from POA sis even when I asked for updates. Such is life in extremely dysfunctional families. Try to just let it go, you know your mom would not want to see you and your twisted sissy getting on like this.
When my mom was placed on hospice care, I found out through the grapevine. When stepdad was hospitalized, quite ill, I was not on his list of family members. They can become so cruel and vindictive.
Try not to feed the monster.
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