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Guardian911 Asked November 2019

My sister & I were disabled Mom's 10yr. live in unpaid caregivers. We need someone to help us stand for what's right. Advice?

Dr. & nurses came once a week, Dr. said Mom had excellent care. Last yr. my Mom was hospitalized for 1 month having COPD. My sister & I, Moms 10 yr. live in caregivers lived in the hospital during that whole month until her passing. After she passed 3 other siblings showed up who were absent from Mom's life for 20 yrs. The 1 her in-laws own a funeral parlor, & wanted them to do Mom's funeral. Exhausted we accepted the offer. From that point they stole life ins policy my Mom left for me, comitted signature, SS, & notory, fraud. Had Mom cremated by county for $290.00, & charged me $6,000.00 for a john doe funeral. They probated a fraud will, hired an estate attorney & charged my sister & myself as squatters after living there for 30 yrs. having a sheriff throwing us in the street w/ our rescued pets. As they watched & laughed. All of our belongings we couldn't carry they stole from us as well as my car on my Mom's property. We were told we needed to hire a probate attorney that all wanted $7,500.00 upfront. We didn't have it as we helped my Mom pay all her bills. We finally found an attorney to help us, but there's so many people involved & so much corrupt, fraud, & theft. Its evident for the past 10 yrs. that we've been caring for our Mom, the whole time they've been planning & scheming to steal everything my Mom had & what she left my sister & myself. They only got this far because our 1 sibling is a cop in our township. He used his badge involving so many people, saying I have them all in my pocket. He illegally wiretapped our phones, repeating private conversations & even threatening everyone we went to for help. They sold my Mom's house for half the price 2 months ago to someone who died yrs. ago, a cover up. Our attorneys been asking for 6 months for an accounting which has been ignored till last week. They wrote it themselves using attorneys letterhead & charging estate for attorney charges & charging my sister & myself w/ all fraudulent charges so we end up w/ nothing. There is so much more it would take forever to write. I reported my brother, they said they did an investigation, dismissed charges & a week later he took an early retirement. So far he's right, their all in his pocket. I want justice, my Mom, my sister & myself did not deserve any of this. This is all taking place in Camden County N.J. If theres any one or a high authority that can help us to investigate & help prosecute my siblings, please reply. 10yrs. 24/7 caring for my Mom was hard, never regretted, we miss her so much. But for them to beat us down everyday for 10 months straight after my Mom's passing has really aged & taken a tole on us. I'm so beat up, I'm tired, we need someone to help us stand for what's right & to help us stand for our Mom & her wishes, which no one has a right to take from anyone. TU for your time & any help is greatly appreciated. My Mama's forever Guardian, Patti

JoAnn29 Nov 2019
So sorry this happened to you. Not sure how they got u evicted since it was your residence. I live in S Jersey not far from Camden. Very corrupt city. To get justice it will take money or a Lawyer who will take it and getting his % if you settle.

So, I think you may want to put this all behind you. You and sister get a place together. Walk away from these people and don't tell them where ur. Never, Never help them. And believe me, what goes around comes around. They wil, get theirs before they leave this world.

Shane1124 Nov 2019
Did mom have a will? I am assuming that in the 10 years you & sis lived with & took care of your mother these most important details were listed in mom’s will?
It’s not fair to you & your sister that all the details weren’t documented if there was no will & makes it doubly hard to settle an estate. Plus shady Family that come out of the woodwork when money is involved.
Who owned mom’s home after she passed? Who (was)is on the deed?
I am glad you have an attorney. It’s too bad when this happens. Why would your siblings want you and your sister out of the house now? Where were they in the past 10 years- did they help you provide care?
Sorry to hear about this. Family can be formidable opponents.

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XenaJada Nov 2019
"There is nobody more dangerous than someone who has nothing to lose."
Your brother is pretty dumb if he thinks you and your sister are going to just walk away.

AlvaDeer Nov 2019
I am so sorry to hear what you have gone through. I have to say that I cannot imagine how any of us could advise you in this very difficult, complicated and convoluted situation, but I am relieved to hear that you do have an attorney. Again, very sorry.

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