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Katmar Asked December 2019

What Is the criteria for nursing home placement in Connecticut?

This is my 20th year of caregiving. Eight for my husband, 5 for Mom and 8 for Dad-the last 5 in my home. I am burned out. He is 94 with dementia, uses a walker but is a huge fall risk. Today he has been hallucinating and delusional. He’s talking to people that don’t exist but at other times is quite lucid, I’m exhausted. I need him to be cared for and safe. He is incontinent and I need help. We live in CT how can I get him placed in a nursing home without spending 3 days in the hospital? His vitals are better than mine. But, I’m exhausted. Help. We have applied for Medicaid waiting for a decision.

BarbBrooklyn Dec 2019
If your father has had a sudden change in mental status, I would call that a medical emergency and call 911.

He could have a UTI, which can cause a sudden change like this. He may be having (or has had) a TIA


Why don't you want him to spend 3 days in the hospital? It's the shortest and most direct route to placement.

Lymie61 Dec 2019
I would start with his PCP. If they have a large elderly clientele they should be able to help guide you and may even have a nurse coordinator who does all of this for the office and their patients families. I know my mom's PCP's office does (in CT).

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IES130 Dec 2019
Hi Katmar, try calling around for some nursing homes to see if they will accept “Medicaid Pending”. Some do. Sometimes it will say that on their website. Also, does your father have any savings? If so he may be able to private pay for some months at a nursing home while his Medicaid paperwork is going through. If that’s not an option at the moment see if you can hire some help at home at least temporarily while everything gets sorted out. Your local office on aging may be able to help.

mstrbill Dec 2019
Hi Katmar, I empathize with you. Its so hard. You can start researching and calling SNF's in your area to see if they have open beds and will accept Medicaid pending residents. You also may need a Dr. declaration that he needs that level of care (I'm not sure about that but I think you do). I've heard its very hard to go this route of placement on your own, so if you do succeed let us know how the process went. If you don't have luck by yourself, try contacting a state social worker or Area on Aging for help. Best wishes.

JoAnn29 Dec 2019
I think ur Dad would fit the criteria. But, you will need to check with the NHs in the area. His PCP can recommend 24/7 care.

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