My mom is in memory care. She has a nervous habit of rubbing her finger aside her nose repeatedly. She now has made a horrible open sore on her face that is about an inch wide. A biopsy has been done that ruled out cancer. We have tried covering it with various types of bandages, but she will peel them off. The caregivers at her facility put a numbing medication and an antiseptic on the sore 2-3 times a day. I also make sure to keep her nails short. The doctors and nurses I have dealt with are at a loss of what to do. I am afraid of it getting even deeper than it already is and getting it infected worse. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
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whilst the article is about picking I would think it applied to your mums rubbing in this case since it’s caused an open sure.
Bar vaseline to make it slippery rather than chaff the only other thing I can think of is a nose guard till it heals and that’s only if she doesn’t remove it
but the the article mentions behaviour therapy
my mom picks at old age spots on her face and gets them to bleeding
this is is a more common problem with dementia than you'd think
small stuffed animal or doll to hold may help too
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If the nose rubbing occurs also during less active times of day (lying down for bed), maybe get a stress ball, stuffed animal, fidget spinner, or ??? that would help keep her hands occupied and away from her face.
I would also recommend having your mom see a geriatric psychiatrist or psychologist. They can be a huge help, but not all are created equal, so don't be afraid to find a second or third opinion.
You probably should continue to rule out physical causes. Even if cancer is ruled out... What about an allergic reaction to something in the MC facility or something she ate? What about a tooth abscess? Nasal infection?
And... Not to be too critical, but if the best solution the MC facility can come up with is to apply an anesthetic, then maybe you want to look at other MC facilities.
Best of luck!