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Mrsmichelleboyd Asked January 2020

Father-in-law treats stuffed animal as if it's real. Should we be concerned?

FIL moved into skilled nursing facility in retirement community, MIL lives in apartment in same community. FIL recently purchased a stuffed dog that he takes everywhere with him. He talks to it and pets it as if it is real. Is this something that we should be worried about? He told his social worker that he is very attached to this stuffed dog.

Marylepete Jan 2020
That stuffed animal is so important, as is the robotic dog I bought for my husband with Alzheimer's. The robotic dog, is big, quite heavy, artificial fur, reacts to sound, movement and light. I can not begin to tell you how wonderful this dog is, as I call it......a senior citizens apartment dog. No need to feed him or clean up after him. It is so calming as he pets it, hugs it, even talks to it. It is his buddy and that is ok. We need to get into the world of the patient. With diseases like this or others, what ever works, for calmness and joy. Some might not understand, but that is ok too. No need to explain. I know my husband's buddy is priceless.

Mrsmichelleboyd Jan 2020
Thank you for the reassurance. He has vascular dementia and I was concerned that things might be changing.

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anonymous912123 Jan 2020
If it calms him, then I wouldn't be concerned, he could be doing a lot worse things.

Katiekate Jan 2020
This is fulling a need he has.
recent test study was done in a NH...they provided baby dolls to patients. They found that they were cuddled and handled just like real babies, and those patients with the dolls adjusted better, were happier and more medically stable.

there are lots of “up side” benefits, and no bad side effects.

encourage it.

gladimhere Jan 2020
No, don't be concerned. It is providing him comfort. This is quite common actually. It is great that he has a relationship with the dog. In fact, I would be more concerned about him losing it. You might consider buying another couple just like it, just in case.

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