Mom not telling us when she needs to go to the bathroom. She’ll either wait until we ask her or she goes in her protective underwear.

Were going to continue using the Sams pull-ups during the day and Abena at night. Thanks for caring,

For some unknown reason she started telling when she needed to go. BUT, I’m doing what you suggested and asking her if it’s been 45 minutes. Gonna see how this works. Thank you,

Pay attention to fluid intake and frequency. Maybe keep a simple log so you can tell what interval works.

After she pees, have her lean forward (while still seated on the toilet) which will help the bladder empty more completely. There is medication that will help her empty her bladder if that seems to be the problem.

My aunt uses depends with an overnight poise pad inserted. It works pretty well for her.

Yes, she will have to go frequently to the bathroom and just buy the highest absorption protection you can buy.

Also. sit on the toilet for a long time because if her bladder isn’t completely empty she will have to go five minutes later.

My dad had the best luck with Sam's brand.

Can I recommend that you try every 45 minutes and see if that helps her not have so many accidents.

Is someone prompting her when she is on the toilet? I would try that and change the frequency of trips by 5 minute intervals until I found the perfect timing.