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OUHyperop Asked February 2020

SOS hospital discharging mom and with our current housing and moving crisis I CANNOT HAVE HER HOME yet. What can I do?

Hi, Everybody hates me. I just got off the phone with the hospital and the date I guess they discharge mom. Yesterday they told me but anyway for those of you know better or her brother in the POA in the house getting foreclosed on and us having to move yada yada. Him this week since Sunday she has been at the in the hospital and I’ve gotten more done with is this limited time moving and packing and everything else it and trying to find a place to live, but having no money and no many lenders. I’ve gotten more done that I’ve got done in the last two years and his last five days can I refuse to go pick her up or what can I do. I can’t have her come home right now. I don’t have time to. I don’t have a babysitter. What else do I have a 5 o’clock on a Friday afternoon? ASAP help would be appreciated I did not edit this before I posted it I hope it makes sense


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Isthisrealyreal Feb 2020
Sus, get them to send her for rehabilitation.

I would be telling anyone and everyone that she needs to get stronger before she goes home.

Medicare should cover it with 3 midnight's in the hospital.

Deep breathes and start telling everyone she needs rehabilitation.

cwillie Feb 2020
Sorry, I couldn't make heads nor tails of most of that.
What are your mother's needs, what level of care does she need? Can she be left on her own or does she need 24/7 supervision?
I gather you have no money to pay for a sitter or to pay for a temporary stay in a facility, but does SHE have money to pay for that?

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OUHyperop Feb 2020
No they are the doctors said that they were going to do in-home physical therapy and the nurse was nice enough and he and I just went over he just where I was on the phone with him and he just went over every possible note and record to see if we could find something that could put her in a skilled nursing facility but I just end up having another bloody nose after I got off the phone with him in the dread having to go pick her up I’m I’m gonna call the airy house in the local area housing on aging I don’t know what else to do or agency on aging I’m sorry I don’t know what else to do but I’d like I can’t even my body won’t even go to the car to go pick her up you know what I mean my body is like nope not getting in car anyway oh boy thank you for your replies

shad250 Feb 2020
Rehab may be the only choice.

OUHyperop Feb 2020
I still haven’t got anybody to Lenders any money for a down payment for a new place I mean there’s stuff that I have to have done and we have to be out of here by April 13 and I just don’t have time to play her needy games and crap and it is going to not come out good for either of us if she comes home and screws everything up that I’ve worked so hard on I’m sorry I don’t mean to sound like an ass but I just don’t want me to go pick her up and I just don’t want to because it’s gonna mess everything up that I’ve been working on and I will be able to get anything done I’m scared thank you for your replies in advance
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cwillie Feb 2020
Is going to rehab for a couple of weeks a possibility? Why was she in the hospital?

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