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Seano2020 Asked June 2020

My wifes mother is in nursing home in MA. She's been harrassed and wants a new emergency placement ASAP. How do we make this happen?

In addition...some family members may object to this but patient is of solid mind and able to make her own decisions. However one of the opposing members is the healthcare proxy but as far as we know it hasn't been invoked. Any suggestions?

JoAnn29 Jun 2020
Your question says NH? If of sound mind why is she is a NH.? Does she need 24/7 care? Usually Healthcare proxy doesn't come into effect if the person can make there own decisions. Who is paying for her care? If Medicaid its going to be hard to change over, not impossible, but hard. With the COVID too. Then its if there is a bed available, especially with Medicaid.

Just curious, what kind of harassment?

AlvaDeer Jun 2020
Well, this would be much like a child saying they had been harassed at school and want an immediate transfer. Wouldn't be easy. I think calling in the ombudsman is a very good idea. I think also, given that people who are in Assisted Living are often dealing with somewhat altered minds, the things that happen and are said can be quite odd. I told my bro that he and his gang were like a bunch of hippies in one of those 60s communes, that required periodic community meetings to work stuff out.
I am afraid our "wants" become almost impossible to fulfill at times.
More details on the type of harassment might change my mind, but I think I would try to look at this as a misunderstanding that should be worked out.

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Grandma1954 Jun 2020
In what way is she being harassed?
Would a phone call to the State Ombudsman help the situation?
If she is of sound mind / not been declared incompetent she can arrange transfer to another facility.

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