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DobermanLover Asked July 2020

How much information does one have to have for small claims court?

My brother is moving out in a month from my mother's home and I suspect he will leave all of his garbage and what not there as he has done in the past. If I have to pay to have someone remove it can I sue him for the cost?

BarbBrooklyn Jul 2020
So, your brother is mentally ill and mom has been protecting him for many years. Might it occur to you to tell mom, if she is still competent, that she needs to set up a trust or something for him?

You can only be a doormat if you lie down (a great Ann Landers bon mot). It sounds like you've been mom's doormat for a long time. I'd stop right about now.

FloridaDD Jul 2020
You can try small claims court, but please also get locks changed.

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BarbBrooklyn Jul 2020
Charge him and he'll pay with what money?

And if I recall, mom keeps asking you to reconcile with him, because "you'll need him someday"?

Geaton777 Jul 2020
Small claims requirements vary from state to state, so check what your home state requires. You may need to have a minimum grievance amount and a receipt that you (or your mom) have already paid. There are fees and then even if brother doesn't show up in court, he has to have some sort of bank account for them to garnish wages. If he has no money, you've chased around for nothing. I'm a small business owner and small claims court is practically worthless, IMO. Just sell his stuff as is like BarbBrooklyn suggested. When my in-laws had to vacate their foreclosed home we just had a name-your-price sale and told people the proceeds were going to pay for a nursing home for my inlaws. No prices on anything, everything as-is. I think people tended to overpay. Cash only, nothing under $1 were the only rules (so that you didn't need to make small change). Good luck!

BarbBrooklyn Jul 2020
Why would YOU have to pay? It's your mother's house; it's her bill to pay.

Is the house going to be sold? Then you do an "as is" sale and let the realtor or the new owner deal with your brothers junk.
DobermanLover Jul 2020
Barb,
The house is not being sold. He has lived with her for over thirty years, no rent does nothing around the house ( I know this is her problem). He did move out three years ago for 2 yrs only to come back. He lived with a relative and never paid rent and kicked out. But when he did he took choice items and left the rest of his junk so I figured this time if he did the same I would charge him to have it all moved. My mother is 79 and not in good health so I try to help where I can. Brother is in his late 50's and can't keep a job

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