I can no longer leave my husband alone because of cardiac arrest "symptoms". (I say symptoms because the doctors will not verify that he went into cardiac arrest the last 2 times, (this month), that he became unconscious, continued vomiting, heart beat stopped, breathing stopped, and 911 operator verified analogue breathing the first time. I had to give him guided CPR this last time.) Over the last 2 months he has been in the hospital 3 times. I have purchases a quality stethoscope, (so I can actually hear if he has a heart beat), wrist BP cuff, (he has extremely low/high BP), baby monitor, (which has NO long distance - out in my yard - capabilities). I am waiting for the smart watch I just bought to come in the mail. I have a Logitech camera connected to my computer in my living room but what I need is monitor that will let me watch him, (maybe on my phone), while I am outside mowing, etc.. I am weary of researching "home care items" so any suggestions on monitors that work for you will be greatly appreciated. Thank you
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BUT if you're mowing the lawn are you going to be able to watch him at the same time? Even if you are sitting in the yard having a cup of coffee and reading a book if you look up and see him in the living room and the next time you look up he is on the floor in the bedroom if 5 minutes have passed that is a LONG time in an emergency. And I can sit and read a book and loose track of time. Or if it is not reading a book it could be checking email or even doing the laundry in another part of the house.
I gotta tell you this would scare the crap out of me!
Would it be possible that until he actually has a diagnosis and an acceptable treatment could you get a caregiver or even a family member to stay with him if you are gone? (Or hire a neighbor to do your yard) I really dislike being told I have to confine myself to the house so this would be difficult for me and I would have to have someone that I could call on to stay in the house if I had to go out.