It started a couple of yrs ago. I was given this job of taking care of their banking and cleaning up the big financial disorder that my step dad created. I didn't have a clue what was in store for me in the yrs ahead.
To my surprise when I took over on their money, I was also taking charge of their meds. That's when things started getting really strange.
Both of them had been taking a large amount of meds and the thing that really was off... Nether one of them could tell me what all those pills were for or why they were taking so many every day.
That was just the beginning of dealing with their Dr.'s
It has not been easy for me or anyone else, meaning, my step dad has been the most needy person I've ever known.
I really do need some help too . I don't know where to start. It's only me that has to deal with everything. The reality of it is that mom is 88 yrs old, she has dementia, this is really hard mentally for me to understand. We are getting very low on relatives. All of them have passed away.
I have talked to some people from here about my issues. It seems to be a problem as soon as I tell them that my step dad is on disability. State disability, which isn't very much and mom was a stay at home mom so she gets a little bit.
I am disabled too, with all the issues that come along with bad back, hips and legs.
My name is Adrienne. I live in Clearlake, Cal.
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see if the doctor is willing to put them on hospice care, they will come out and help with the physical labor part. You can learn a lot from the staff that comes to help.
have you contacted their social worker? They might be able to help.
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As Countrymouse say, the important thing is to address this NOW, on Monday, and with those who can help you, because no one here can be of any real help to you. So sorry for all you are going through.
https://www.mendocinocounty.org/government/health-and-human-services-agency/social-services/adult-aging-services/area-agency-on-aging-aaa
You will see all sorts of links for all sorts of advice. If I were you I'd start with a telephone call because that way a real person can direct you to the best advice for your circumstances.
The one thing you mustn't do is wait much longer! Do it on Monday morning :)