Mum (90) sleeps most of the time and refuses to eat or drink. What can we do? She is handicap, and needs a caregiver to assist.

Maybe she's just tired of her life as it is, and she is ready to die. Not eating or drinking can be a sign that her body is getting ready for it's next journey, along with sleeping a lot. Probably time to get Hospice involved, as they can better advise you as to what's going on with her. Best wishes.

Is it time to consider hospice Oldmum?