My 85 yo sister goes between hospital and nursing home with low blood pressure, low oxygen, bleeding ulcer, arrhythmia. She eats and drinks very little when coaxed and is no longer responding or talking to nurses or on the phone to us. (We cannot be with her because of the virus at this time.) She belongs to a local parish. My brother and I are her nearest relatives and poa for her care. Her doctor today suggested we begin hospice care for her. She never shows improvement, just steady decline. How do we know when to call for a priest, or will her caregivers help us in that decision?
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If a local priest is willing to come often, it may help & comfort your sister during this time. I’ll pray for her.
You can contact a Priest at any time.
As a matter of fact it might be a great comfort to your sister to have a Priest there.
Hospice also has Chaplains as well as Priests that will see your sister if she/ you wish.
The Sacrament of the Sick (Last Rites) can be given any time and it may be given more than once.
I am sure any Priest or clergy will tell you that it is never a wrong time to contact them .
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My brother was in a long term facility and the priest gave him the Sacrament of the Sick and his numbers improved and he was calmer.
If your loved one is at some sort of transition point, get a priest in. It certainly can't hury.
The former “Last Rites/Extreme Unction” is now referred to as the “Sacrament of the Sick”. You may request and receive this Sacrament more than once.
In your situation, I’d contact the Priest from her Parish and ask him what guidance he’d give you in the situation.