Need senior monitoring system with fall notification. Any suggestions?

Hi Everyone,

First-time poster here, so thank you for all you do (I'm looking at you, the one who responds with the wealth of knowledge you're willing to share).

I'm 50, a retired fire captain, and in my first year of law school. Youngest of six. I invited my father to move in with me...he came from the Boston area to South Dakota after his wife passed a couple years ago. He's 81, has all his faculties, is mobile enough to walk his small dog every day, and still drives and is good at it. He's been here since October.

After a month of settling, I brought up the topic of monitoring, to which he replied "I'm don't think I'm ready for that yet." It's definitely a pride thing for him...but today, all that changed. He slipped on the melting ice and cracked his nose, then passed out and fell again two more times before he made it to the house door. His nose was hamburger, but otherwise, I did a quick paramedic assessment on him before we went to the ER. All the tests checked out OK.

I would like to find a product that is preferably a wristwatch design that does not look like a giant first aid symbol - something wearable that will not draw attention to the fact that it's a monitoring device. It needs to have fall notification that comes directly to me, and preferably a GPS signal for location - although that would not be a deal breaker. A 911 button would also be good if it's something that exists away from the home.

Since I am new to this caretaker stuff, any other suggestions or options you might be able to give me would be much appreciated.

I'm home with him every day at various times. My walk to law school is less than eight minutes, or a couple if I drive.

My dad's muscles are weak. He has been to physical therapy, but basically refuses to strengthen his legs and upper body to the point of becoming more capable of living safely. Will not do Silver Sneakers or anything like it. I know from decades of fire/EMS work that one bad fall - especially a broken hip - could spell the end of life as he knows it. I'll take it to the wall to keep him home, but we're in a new phase, and from here on out, unless he changes, this will be a slow slide to less and less stable mobility, and more and more assistance.

Thanks in advance.
Maitai