POA moved out of town and has left her 2 sons to do things for my husband when she cannot come to do them. I'm not sure about this. Advice?

This is oldest oldest sister. She decided to move back to Baltimore where they are from. They moved last weekend. I am no way good with her being hubby's Power of Attorney due to way she treats him. I do not like her and told her she's acting like she may move back here.

Hubby is very intimidated of her. Sees me as a pushover but I will tell her she's controlling hubby. Whatever she says, she's right and her being the oldest. Other sister told me that she's been a pain in my side since we got married. She had his medicines sent to her house, was coming to ours did not tell me. Other day he had like 3 or 4 seizures. We did not sleep all night into that morning. It took for me to call her, what really gets me is you cannot call 911 she's all worried about the cost. Hello, his insurance should pay. I'm sick of her.

Now the oldest son, his wife and baby now are in the house. She wants us to move in. Said watch a year they move out, no I cannot stand you. I really do not know him well, only speak when I see him. She mentioned the same night he had his seizures think she had opened up a checking account that's for our rent, other bills. Hubby pays now. The oldest son knows very well he's not going to be that good. I think with him come help him out with a shower. She's money crazy believe me.

I am hoping her son is not like her because I'm going to end up not liking him either. I know he did not come on Sunday, take us to grocery store. I got to get his number as well as her youngest son's. I wanted to scream the other day he took sick me not liking her being here some things she could of went home. One of hubby's meds need to be here. Again you are nerved to no end when he has more then one seizure and no do not call 911 or call the doctor. I'm hoping she does not move back here. She's going to wear to me herself stupid coming for stupid things in town I myself have a special needs adult daughter.

I have thought about moving out but I messed my housing up making him head of household, but I could save up because I am fed up they just use hubby their mom along with 2 brothers, sisters have passed. How can a Power of Attorney be in 2 states? She does not care about him like she says.

The oldest son that she has told him this, that she mentioned think she had him open a checking account so he write out whatever bills hubby pays. I'm trying to figure out how is that going to work. I do not know how youngest son only speaks when I see him. I really know how the oldest one is he's not going to me be no good. This woman is very controlling, hubby is very intimdated of her. She stopped his medicines from coming to our home.