My parents both in their 80s live in their own home. My dad has Alzheimer’s and my mom is struggling with arthritis. One of the biggest struggles at this time is my dad has been getting up at all times of the night. He makes his bed and dresses and wakes my mom. She tells him it is not time to get up and still night, but his response is “I know”. We have tried keeping him up as late as possible, but he is ready and wants to go to bed around 7:30. We have his room dark, and watch that he doesn’t eat or drink anything that would stimulate him. We have started to give him Melatonin with the doctor’s approval. Other than stronger medication, does anyone have strategies that have helped them?
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Also, many Alzheimer's patients have problems with day/night in advanced stages of the disease. It might be helpful to hire a sitter for the night shift who can redirect him back to bed or keep him from waking mom.
Also, I don't know if a digital clock with AM / PM indicators would help him. We got my mom one the size of a tablet that has the day of the week, the date, and AM / PM time. It has helped her a lot keeping track of the day of the week and with taking her meds.
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It's exhausting for the caregiver - I empathize with your mom.
If he's napping during the day, try to keep it to a bare minimum. At the time he usually is konking out, try to get him to be active? Going to be a struggle.
I think that the biggest challenge is getting him to stay up past 7:30. He has 8 hours in at 3:30, so he is feeling like it is time to get up in the middle of the night.
My personal experience is that a senior either sleeps to much or they are bright eyed after 5 or 6 hours.
I would find something that stimulates him and keeps him up until 9 or 10 so mom can have a good night's rest. He obviously only needs about 5 to 6 hours of sleep. Oh, and no naps during the day.