Money. Wife of 54 years feels I am taking advantage. Advice?

Does she have any cognitive decline?

Do you control all of the money?

Is she responsible with money?

Are you responsible with money?

See a marriage and financial advisor.

Best of luck to you and your wife.

We need details of what is going on. Can't even begin to imagine what you are talking about. Hope you come back and fill us in.

I think in order to hopefully receive helpful advice you need to explain the situation in more detail.