I want out. I am being guilted to help take care of an aging person, without pay. It's sexist too, because girl equals better care. Advice?

my dad isn't messed up, he thought the aunt was the closest, its just my mom dying of a terminal illness, wrecked his finances, so he had to go and get a better paying job else where, and thought it would be easier if I stayed in the same area and go to the same school, and it just didn't, yeah, no, he was kept in the dark about it. like he was sending her a stipend a month, for my care, and was under the impression that my life would remain relatively normal, and that I'd get to finish high school because I was on my senior year, but I was pulled out, forced into homeschooling sessions, and it was either that or get sent to a re-education camp, that uses gothards teachings. I knew of a girl in high school who went to that sort of rehab/troubled/reducation camp, she turned out alot worse after than she came in. I had a scholarship too, and that really made me just like resent her more, I mean granted I chose to coast after getting my ged and found some success in life, it sucks because if it wasn't for that b****, I could've had went to college. but nope, nope, if it wasn't for it was my grandpa and someone else I would told her to fly a kite. but yeah leaving friday, my friend went into my cash stash in my room at home and bought a plane ticket. leaving saturday, going home to washington.

\ until coivd, I've been backpacking, you know traveling from place to place doing youtube videos about it, i've made some pretty good money off it, because backpacking is an alternative lifestyle, and it can take you to interesting things, and generate interesting content, and truthfully I like to travel. and like one of my family members called and said that my grandfathers situation and at like they were can you stay for a little bit, and help because another relative cousin is living there and she has kidney failure, and my aunt was like I am being overwhelmed, was up until coivd going to college, sorry I was really sleep deprived when I made my profile, anyways so I was told that they needed help for a month, to get him into a home and I was like sure fine, I suppose a month would be okay, it was only until we figured out where to put him, and at the time I though it was gonna be temporary, and like my aunt is like ilbp denominational christian, yeah you know the duggar type of fundies, so I thought at the time it was only going to be 1 or 2 months at max, I wanted to genuinely help at the time, because I knew between dealing with my grandfather aging, a cousin who has end stage renal disease, and ontop of that having to deal with 6 kids, it started as genuine thing to help. but 2 months turned into about 6 and I am burnt out. I am not like adverse to caregiving, I've done it before with my own mom back at 16, but I know my limits, I've tried really to help, but because my aunt has fucked up views on a womans role, and the genuine need is being out weighed with the fact I am only one person. Basically I got tricked into it, and now I am being guilted to stay.

Before I got guilt tripped in to helping my fundie aunt into care of what I thought would be a temporary need, I had a nice and tidy stream of income. I literally before coivd had a very active youtube channel depicting a backpacking nomadic lifestyle, because I like to travel, and I hate being tied down to one place, any ways, when coivd hit I had to settle down for a bit, and switched to freegan videos, because I am a bit of freegan, and did while it did pay the bills, because in between, like literally taking requests to sort of show off upcycling, and dumpster diving hauls, any worthwhile finds that had real value I would auction off to my discord group, and generate a secondary income off that, because on my patreon, one of my perks was exclusive life time access to my fans only discord, and I would let them have first pick to any items of value I found I planned on reselling, like seriously you'd be amazed at what people leave on the side of the road, or throw out. I literally made about effectively in one year alone, 5000, extra, by reducing the consumption of resources, and reselling items of value, that I have acquired from the finest trash bins of portland. Basically I like traveling and I am a freegan, and have effectively capitalized off both aspects, while teaching others to be more thoughtful in what your throwing out, and reducing the consumption resources by not consuming as much, and that hey, you can find a tv for free just by the dumpster, at an apartment complex. I've found so many working tvs, and I am not talking about cheap ones.

At the time I was living in portland and for awhile I was just doing my own thing, and like my aunt called me and was LIKE I need help. Now the thing is, when I turned 18 I left her and cut all contact, because she's, uh one of the iblp types of fundies, and while I only stayed with her for a short time, because my mom died of illness at 17, and technically I needed an adult, she tried to force me into her little cult, and literally made my life kind of hell, because she thought how my mom raised me, was sinful, and wicked, and I needed jesus. I simply endured because it was only one year, and the minute I turned 18 she was like lol you need to get a husband and tried to get me into a courtship with a man who was 29 at the time, because he was buddies with her husband at the church. I f***** off that night, went to go stay with my sister, and started to work and save money up to go to Washington where one my friends was at, then I sorted of took a few years of backpacking just to see california, even went mexico, and made money doing odd jobs. it wasn't untill like I figured that people wanted to consume content, like that, that I started making money. I am free spirit I don't like being tied down. anyways so when I go resettled and changed my content to freegnanism even did a few chaz/chop streams, anyways, my aunt called me, and if it wasn't for the fact that my grandpa was sick, I would've never opted in, and I was told it was only temporary until they found a home he and they liked. and it sort of turned out to be a few months, the only reason why I chose to initiately help was for him, and my sister she already has a life of her own, she has kids and a job, and husband, and I was sort of just doing my own thing, and I thought the situation would've been temporary, and that why I wanted to help.

As a side note incase, your wondering what iblp is, its basically an extreme denomination of Christianity; I am not sure if your aware but recently on the news, theres a guy named josh duggar, who got arrested for horrendous stuff, thats what him and his family followed. when my mom died, I was the middle child, and my brother the youngest. my dad was no in position to financially support us, so I was sent to live with my aunt, and it was the most stifling year of my life.