My mother (83) has always been her local church's seamstress. Over 40 years ago she made the altar cloths and gowns. She has continued to do this over the years. About 5 years ago, the then priest asked her again. She really struggled as her eyesight was poor and she couldn't sew in a straight line. We, as a family, never ask her to undertake any sewing tasks and haven't for about 20 years. The church has a new priest and he has asked her to sew the altar cloths again. She cannot say no but she is really struggling. Her eyesight is even worse, she can't remember measurements, the task is too much. I was thinking of emailing the priest and telling him the task is too much for her. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I just wanted to add that she doesn't want to do it anymore but cannot say no. She also isn't paid.
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Religion puts such a guilt trip on us.
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Because you wouldn't want the result that the priest takes her job away.
If you have the same priest, maybe he could bring someone over, and your Mom could teach them how to sew the altar cloths, thereby giving her a job.
These days, there are church supplies online, available. Check that out. Maybe Mom would like to donate if money is not a problem for her.