Battered caregiver (bvFTD) Behavioral Variant Frontotemporal Dementia, advice?

I have posted here before and am now begging for suggestions and/or resources.

I am the spouse of a 66-year-old male with behavioral variant frontotemporal dementia (bvFTD). His diagnosis was in March 2015 with symptoms at least 18 months prior.

He attempted suicide after choking and body slamming me that night, beating my head against the floor.

There have been several attacks that could’ve killed me and then February this year he pulled on the emergency brake while I was driving 50 mph. I slid 180°, narrowly missing two trucks and a telephone pole and flew in the opposite direction. He nearly killed me that night with another physical attack. This time his eyes appeared wild and unfamiliar, like I was looking at someone else.

I’ve endured one more severe beating since then and a physical collapse that has separated me from him temporarily. Tanked blood sugar and complete exhaustion while out of town on personal business.

I am currently displaced and living in Chicago with a friend, but I’m so traumatized I can’t pull it together. I’m wrecked.

There are no resources.
He is not eligible to go into a facility because he is capable of taking his medication and a shower without assistance. I do have to check daily to make sure that he’s taking his medication but he is able to comply and for that reason does not qualify for a Medicaid facility.
I do not qualify for aid of any kind despite the fact that we only have his social security.

This leaves me in an incredibly precarious position. I have no personal income, All assets have been wiped out, I have no family or local assistance where he is. I am ineligible for services in Chicago because I am not a resident. It’s difficult to look for employment because I’m not a resident here, and the cost of living is prohibitive. Forget shelter availability. Additionally, it may cause problems with my ability to care for him remotely. The idea of returning to my residential state to keep dealing with this leaves me paralyzed.

I am at a loss. Our lives have been destroyed. We’ve been married for 25 years and 17 of them were peaceful. He would never have battered me the way he has since he became ill. I have PTSD and my episodes trigger him into these blind rage, so I feel responsible for my beatings.

Please, can any help? I’m really in trouble.

Tobey