Has anyone used Vet Assistance Program? Is it reputable? My mom is the widow of a WW2 vet. I'm looking to get help paying for in-home care.

Also, have a voided check. I have heard payments hit the bank before u get the letter of acceptance. They will only do direct deposit. Was Mom married before? I had to produce Moms first marriage certificate from when she was 18. She was married to Dad for 55 yrs. Dad also has to have served during Wartime.

Like Becky, my Dad had everything in the same envelope he was handed when he was discharged.

I suggest that you contact the local Veterans Assistance Commission. Their services are free. When you call to set up the appointment have all information that you might think they will need. Service number, discharge papers, Date of birth, and anything else you might have.
Gladimhere is right it will not be an overnight process. the good thing though is any benefits would be retroactive to the date that she filed.

I did my Mom's application for VA Aid and Attendance. I went thru my local VA office. It was not difficult. Approved and had her first check in about 3.5 months. Her first check included retrocative money to date of application. Get all of your dad's discharge paperwork together. I was lucky; my dad had kept all of his military paperwork in one big envelope.

You should not pay any company for the service to prepare mom's application. Contact your local Veteran's Administration where you can get all the help you need. Be prepared to be patient, approval will not be overnight.