I’m going on vacation tomorrow with my husband to Italy for 10 days. We’re so excited, but I feel awful to leave my dad who is in a good nursing home with people that I know and trust. I see my dad everyday. We’re very very close and I feel terribly guilty for going. What do I do?
27 Answers
Helpful Newest
First Oldest
First
Guilt is a very useless and draining emotion. Don't play its game.
You are no good to anyone if you can't be good to yourself sometimes.
ADVERTISEMENT
So I care for my parents and am there for them like I hope my children will be there for me when the time comes, but I don’t put my life totally on hold for dad and mom.
He dropped dead (literally) 7 months and 12 days later. That was 3 1/2 years ago. I was left with many, many tasks that were put off...and travel plans we had that I will likely never pursue.
Do not wait to enjoy your own lives!
Something my dad told me early last year: "You gotta live."
See All Answers