My grandmother has dementia, and it has been getting worse. The past couple days she has been dropping things, falling, having restless nights, etc. I am only 15, so I am writing this to see what my parents can do about this. On Monday, she had fallen and now she is struggling to walk. I am very concerned because me and my family think she has broken her foot. We are trying to get her to go to the hospital, but she refuses. She has had very bad Mood Swings rarely, and has threatened my family, and we had to call 911 at some points. She is refusing to go to assisted living, and in home services. She also won't quit smoking, which is a very big concern to us. What can my family do? Should we call the hospital?
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She needs a full physical. A test for a UTI (urinary tract infection) with a culture so the correct antibiotic is given. Mom and Dad need to tell the doctors about grandma getting aggressive enough 911 had to be called. There are medications for this aggressiveness. Its no longer what grandma wants, its what is best for her.
If grandma can afford it, Memory Care would be a good option. If she does not have money, then its a Longterm Care Facility with Medicaid helping to pay for her care.
Grandmom no longer has the choice of where she will live if it effects your family. If Mom and Dad work, they also cannot care for her, too. Its hard dealing with someone suffering from Dementia because its so unpredictable. They need 24/7 care.
Wishing you and your family the best.
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