What does every one think about conservatorships?

"No" is a complete sentence.

You have no relationship with this person. At best the only relationship you ever had was tangential through your aunt. He is not related to you, you do not currently speak to him, and you do not live anywhere near him.

You have no responsibility whatsoever to him.

There is no need for you to feel even a slight obligation to say anything more than "No". But if you feel you must say more you can always say "No, I'm not sure why you believe I would be someone that should be part of an intervention for him. He probably doesn't even know who I am. I won't be taking part."

End of discussion. You don't need to be afraid of saying no. You have nothing invested here. And you don't have any obligation to invest anything.

Why do you feel they won't take No for an answer? Since your noyt even related to this man and live 1800 miles, at least, away I din't understand why u would be even considered. Does this man have money they are trying to protect? If not, they just need to call APS and report a vulnerable adult and let them take over.

Actually I have a new cell phone number I deleted FaceTime and zoom I don’t have any type of video calling I hope they get the picture because I can’t answer it any ways I don’t have any media I hate Facebook I never had one it’s a good thing not to have a Facebook they could reach me even if they tried

Simply say, "No thanks, I don't know him well enough to get involved in his life to this extent. If you're concerned about him, here's the phone number for Adult Protective Services."

Then remove yourself from further discussion on the matter.

Could you please explain this better. What I got out of this is that a relative wants you to take on conservatorship for a man who was your deceased Aunt's boyfriend. Since you say you really don't know this man, why do they feel you should do it? You live at least 1800 miles away.

From what I understand about conservatorship, you would handle just the finances. Guardianship covers more. It also cost money and mean you going to court. A Judge will make the ruling. Not being a relative, I don't know if a Judge would even allow it.

Just say N0. You don't want the responsibility. Tell them to call Adult Protection Services and have them evaluate this man's circumstances. They can take over his care and have the State assign guardianship. This is not your responsibility. It also sounds fishy to me. Living as far away as you do, its going to be hard to carry out your responsibilities.

Your best option may be to just call APS and have them do a welfare check on this person.

No you should not do this. You would have to understand the legalities, understand how to keep meticulous records of every penny in and every penny out of this person's accounts. This is a very difficult job to do, and it is very unlikely that any court would allow conservator ship of this person without this being a family member capable of fully understanding conservatorship. This is a legal action, and in the case of the person you mention it is likely, without family capable and willing, the state will take conservatorship or guardianship and will appoint a Licensed Fiduciary to manage care for this person. You should refer this person to APS for appointment of guardianship assessment. Call Adult Protective Services in your area or suggest family refer the case to them.

I really don’t no why they ask me cause I live in Vegas I just can’t go drop everything cause I have to work but they want me to do a zoom intervention again I don’t really no him and feel uncomfortable with it even on zoom