The caregivers have been taking care of my mom and my dad (until he passed away) for four years. They are amazing, responsible, caring ladies. I am out of state, but my mom's dementia is getting worse, so I am taking over her financial records. The caregiver asked me for a raise because she is not earning enough to make ends meet from the agency; she asked her boss for a raise but he won't give it to her. When we were discussing the matter she confided in me that she is paid under the table by the agency and wants me to pay her under the table. I feel uncomfortable paying her under the table, she is great with my mom, and I want her to be able to earn a decent wage. (Since she insists on being paid under the table, it makes me suspect that she doesn't have papers). It's a huge moral dilemma. What should I do?
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Mind your own business about how the agency pays their help. In cases like yours, there is no need to even keep the agency as part of mother's care plan. If they're paying under the table they are not insuring the employee, paying social security for her, giving her sick time, no worker's comp if she gets sick, and if a client passes away and there's no work she doesn't get unemployment.
So basically, the agency is for lack of a better term on my part, is like a pimp. They do nothing and provide nothing. Only the employee has to turn over a cut of her money every week.
You can cut out the agency and hire and pay the caregivers privately.
If insurance is paying, then let that arrangement continue and you (using your mother's money) make up the difference in cash for what the agency won't pay.
The agency is the one taking the risk here not you. They are the one who will get in trouble with the IRS and the ICE if they're hiring and paying under the table. You giving them each some cash every week leaves no paper trail and you won't be taking any risks.
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Be ready to come home or move mom to care. Four+ year employees can be found but are not the norm.
The amount of waisted taxes politicians squander, is into the millions.
Pay her under the table and forget about it.
Do you want to change care provider now? She's doing a difficult job, that not many people want to do, you trust her, her presence helps you out. Taxes are your least concern.
Could there be the possibility this caregiver is not being totally truthful about how she is being paid in order to try to coax some more money out of you?
For example, are they perhaps paying her under the table for any hours over 40 per week she works, so she won't trigger overtime, or being marked as a full-time employee and therefore entitled to benefits?
I'm not saying it's not possible, but it seems to be an awfully big risk for a company to take, to pay its employees under the table, and risk ramifications from the government, especially the I.R.S. Especially if a disgruntled employee decided to "drop a dime" on the agency, as the old saying goes.
Before you consider doing what she asked, maybe try and verify her story. Because if she is indeed being paid under the table, as BurntCaregiver said, you have the option to pay her directly and remove the agency from the equation.
If you have great Caregivers you know, love, and trust, count yourself amongst the luckiest of lucky. You and Mom are blessed, so let's not do anything rash or off-the-cuff, okay???
First, let's check in on the vocabulary. They may have "paid under the table" confused with being 1099 independent contractors who don't get taxes withheld but get a 1099 at the end of the year. That is totally Kosher, completely legal, and usually provides a win-win-win for the clients, caregivers, and agency. I would check with the caregivers first, then the agency. If that is not the case, then all good news for you! I will explain in a minute!!!
I would also quickly like to address the concerns about Workman's Comp that some of the 13 other experts who have chimed in mentioned. Companies that staff 1099 Independent Contractors will not cover their caregivers with Workman Comp. (There are private products that cost about $9/week that are essentially just like Workman Comp if that's a big issue.) In all the years I've been doing this, I've never had a Workman's comp eligible accident at a client's home. Yes, they "could" happen, but your homeowner's insurance will likely give you all the protection you would need in the rare case a qualified accident did happen.
Now, back to Mom and ensuring she gets the care she deserves! Worst (or best) case scenario, the agency has been fleecing you all these years. (We'll call this Option 1) No worries... that means you don't have an enforceable non-compete, and the girls won't either. It means you have all the power! In a few phone calls, you can find a new 1099 agency, explain the problem to them, and let them know you are happy to keep paying the same price, but you want the girls to make $X more. With $0 customer acquisition costs, staffing costs, training costs, etc., any smart businessman would jump on that at a 25% margin.)
PRO TIP! When calling an Agency or Registry, the first question to ask is, "Do you accept Medicaid"? If they say yes, say, "Sorry, wrong number," and hang up. Just because of the nature of Medicaid, those agencies tend to have lower standards that, unfortunately, might carry over to their private pay clients.
Now, let's say the Agency is on the up and up! You are the customer, and you do have the right to negotiate and/or renegotiate an agreement.
(We will call this Option 2.) I suggest you be really straight with the Agency owner and say, "My girls aren't making enough to pay their bills, and it's starting to affect my mother's care. I need you to pay them more.". (Important negotiating strategy... now SHUP UP AND LISTEN!). If you are lucky, he'll say okay - knowing that you are a good, reliable client that is easy to manage and pays well. Or, he might propose a compromise, like he'll give the girls $2/hour and raise your bill rate by $1/hour. Do what's right for you and mom!
If Option 2 doesn't work, you can always go back to Option 1.
Option 3: Have the agency bill you extra and have them give that money as a bonus to the caregivers (on their 1099, so you don't need to worry.)
Option 4: (talk to your accountant first; don't take my word for this) Have the girls start their own LLCs or S corps so you can pay them directly without worrying about 1099s. (It won't work if any LTC insurance is involved.)
Option 5: Not recommended, but you could give the girls' money under the table, but let the agency know you are doing it, so there is transparency. But never pay them more than $600 per year if you aren't prepared to provide 1099s.
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